Soaking the pots

Chris and I have an agreement, like most couples do, that I cook and he cleans. Somehow though, over the last couple of months, the definition of cleaning has gotten lost in translation. I still do my end and I cook, and I can guarantee most nights aren't sloppy joes. For example, last night I made a roasted chicken penne in a white wine cream sauce, not to shabby ehh. Well, after dinner, Chris puts the plates in the dishwasher and then the pots in the sink to soak. And here comes the problem, my nonstick pots are left to soak to help get all the food that isn't stuck to it, off. Not only are they left to soak, but apparently they need to soak overnight....everytime. So I come home from work to a sink full of soaking pots and what do I do, I clean the dishes before I cook dinner that night. This is Chris' version of cleaning the dishes. I am not sure if anyone else agrees, but I think I am getting the short end of the stick!